Play Parties

This is a rsvp event that requires attendees to have been to at least one munch or other private event before they'll be allowed to participate.

The universal safe words for Ky parties:

 
• “Green”: I play harder than that - faster/harder, please!
• “Yellow”: I don't play quite that hard - lighten up, please.
• “Red”: I don't do that - stop doing that at once.
• “Safe word”: I quit - the scene is over, right now!

I am sure these are familiar to most of you; these are directly quoted from the TIES Play Party Rules.  Feel free to negotiate additional safe words for any of your scenes, but remember that these safe words are to be honored in addition to any you decide to add.

The Short list of DO NOTs:

• No Cutting

• No Scat, Golden Showers, or Roman Showers 
• No Extreme Breath Play

• No Illegal drugs

• This party is a No Alcohol Event

• NO Outing

        Do not mention anyone at the party to those not at the party without that  person's express permission to name him. This is a very important issue. The KY group is generally a friendly and forgiving lot, but this is one area in which you will find we have NO tolerance. Privacy is important, and it must be respected. 

KY recognizes that what it is we do can lead to the creation of a great deal of sexual tension. We encourage the use of safer sex practices when body fluids may be exchanged.

It goes without saying that we would like everyone to play safe. If you want to try something new that you have never done before, seek out someone to teach you. Don't get yourself or anyone else hurt by going beyond your skill level. 

The MSDB Website has a wonderful article by "Non-Famous Lauren" on the issue of Play Party Etiquette. I have included a few of the most helpful points here. Please keep them in mind during the evenings festivities.

1. Do not touch people, even in what you think of as a friendly way (like touching someone's arm in conversation) without asking permission.

2. Be quiet while scenes are going on, or go to the social space to chat, and leave space for the top to move, swing a flogger, etc. during a scene.

3. DO NOT ever touch or get too close to the bottom during---or after---a scene. Bottoms are dependent on their tops: the bottom's physical and emotional well-being are the top's responsibility during and after scenes.

4. Do not touch people's toys, floggers, etc. that are lying around without finding the owner and asking.

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