TomDLux

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Photos of me at a LimeLight fetish night in Toronto :
The pictures were taken by Ted Samotowka; more of his stuff here

I'm playing with a thudder, a heavy rubber flogger I made from a bicycle inner tube, with a chainmail handle. At my side you can see the blue handle and red strands of a stinger made by dipping parachute cord in liquid plastic (PlasticDip). I'm wear a 6-in-1 bracelet, I've just recently made the same thing in sterling silver for my mother for Christmas. (see, even kinkoids are nice to Mom).

The log from a workshop I led at the IronRose talker. A bunch of IronRose people got together in Toronto in October, '97, see the pictures.

During our March, 98 vacation, mara and I visited the New York City. Read my impressions on the Empire State building and the HellFire Club.

In real life, I get together with other BDSM people. I recently moved to San Jose, Ca. There's a wonderful group here, SM Odyssey. If you're in the south-west Ontario region, my old group EhBC has listings for munches and events from Kingston to Windsor to Niagara Falls.


What It Is That We Do & Real Life (tm)

Information about BDSM and dealing with the authorities, as obtained from the people on the front line ... cops, paramedics, customs officers. Questions and Answers

Original Fiction

Some stories I've written.

Others are in progress, and some of these might wind up having continuations, or could remain the way they are. If you have ideas of what should happen next, I'm always glad to hear suggestions. While my stories range from gentle to very nasty, I don't care for actual damage, even if it is only fiction. After all, what good is a slavegirl when she's dead. It's hard to get her properly focused on you if pieces are missing, or her intestines are hanging out. Short of that, anything is fair play. After all, they're fantasies.


Submissive of the Month

I am inviting people to send me photos of themselves. They do not need to be anything elaborate or pornographic, but should not be scans of your high school graduation or company picnic, either. Something which brings out and displays the submissive in you is best ... and the guys asked me to remind you that clothing is optional.


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