I have many interests, probably too many to list them all here, but, my main interest - more of a lifestyle actually, is BDSM, for those of you who are unfamiliar with this term... it means bondage, discipline, Dominance, submission, sadism and masochism
All right, you now think I am totally nuts, but bear in mind that 1/3 of the population has tried some form of BDSM at one time or another and think again. Have you ever held someone's wrists whilst making love? or even just smacked your significant others arse as he/she walked past?
BDSM can be as light heavy as you wish, as long as both parties are ok with what is going on, all true BDSM people adhere strictly to the credo SAFE, SANE and CONSENTUAL
I am a submissive masochist, although a lot of friends call me a SAM (Smart Arsed Masochist) um... suppose I had better also mention that I get called "painslut" too
I have only been into the 'scene' since July 1997, but have experienced quite a lot since then, a lot of it being thanks to the Memphis Dungeon Society (now split into Memphis Power Exchange and IMPACT) and Houston People Exchanging Power, both of whom I miss greatly
I joined APEX - Arizona Power EXchange in November 1998 and have met some great people there
I was in training to BrothrPain Sir in r/l and on DALnet where I was known as akasha^-BP, I had a lovely submissive sister - tbeast{BP1} and lived with BP Sir and her, until I asked for release on April 29th 2000.
I was then under consideration by LoneWolf99 Sir. He is another wonderful Dom. Some of His ways are different to those of BP Sir, but they both have the experience and nurturing nature, wishing only to assist in the growth of their charges, as is true with the GOOD Doms. They are also both excellent teachers and extremely special gentlemen. They share great intelligence and understanding, as well as an excellent technique with a flogger. But, by mutual consent W/we decided that I needed time to myself before I could accept another training collar from anyone.
I have of late been looking at my "Top" side also. I am definately in a stage of transition, but what comes next I cannot even guess at.
As the picture will verify, I do not just do cyber - I am a real life submissive - but better also mention that just because I am A submissive, doesn't mean I am EVERYONE's submissive. I am submissive only to those whom I choose to be.
There is a photo of me being quiet, (normally an unknown thing
I was lucky enough to take part in a 'ball dance' April 1999, and again in April 2000. The photo here is from the 1999 event. The April 2000 event page has more photos on it - but they are much more EXTREME.
There are some really good books out there for people who want to know more about BDSM...
The first book I read on the subject was 'Different Loving', by Gloria Brame, a link to her website can be found below.
Another informative book is 'Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns', by Philip Miller and Molly Devon.
If you have difficulty in obtaining the books, try the link to Morgans Toybox below - he will ship it so quickly that you will have your order within a week normally < S >
For High Quality Floggers and Single Tail Whips, as well as loads of other leather goodies, try the link to Pleasure Whips below.
