Below is a list of D/s activities that you may find helpful in guiding your erotic activities.

The list can be used as follows:

Answer YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity in the experience column. Indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity in the Desire column by rating it on a scale of 0 to 5 or as a NO. NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances. A zero indicates you have no desire to do that activity (in fact, may loath it) but you are willing to do it to please the Dominant. 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on, with the other numbers indicating some level in between those two.

ActivityExperience Desire

Abrasion
Anal sex
Arm & leg sleeves
Beating soft
Beating hard
Being Blindfolded
Being gagged
Being serviced (sex)
Biting
Breast bondage
Branding
Boot worship
Bondage - light
Bondage - heavy
Breast whipping
Caning
Chaueffering
Chosen food for
Chosen clothing for
Clothespins
Cock worship
Collars (wearing)
Corsets (wearing)
Cuffs (metal)
Dilation
Double penetration
Electricity
Enemas
Examinations (physical)
Exhibitionism
Face slapping
Fantasy rape
Fantasy gang rape
Fisting
Following orders
Foot worship
Forced dressing
Forced homosexuality
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity
Forced servitude
Full head hoods
Genital sex
Given away
Golden showers
Hairbrushes
Hair pulling
Hand jobs - getting
Hand jobs - giving
Harnessing
Head - giving
Head - getting
High heel worship
Homage with tongue
Hot waxing
Housework
Human puppy dog
Humiliation in private
Humiliation in public
Ice cubes
Including others
Infantalism
Intricate rope bondage
Interrogations
Kidnapping
Kneeling
Leather restraints
Lecturing
Licking
Massage - getting
Massage - giving
Medical scenes
Mouth bits
Nipple clamps
Nipple weights
Oral/anal play
Over-the-knee spanking
Orgasm denial
Orgasm control
Phone sex
Piercing (temp)
Piercing (perm)
Pussy whipping
Pussy worship
Riding crops
Religious scenes
Saran wrapping
Scratching - getting
Scratching - giving
Serving as a pony
Serving as a maid
Sensory deprivation
Serving
Serving as furniture
Serving orally
Sexual deprivation
Shaving
Spanking
Speculums (Anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Spreader bars
Stocks
Straight jackets
Strap-on-dildos
Strapping - full body
Suspension
Supplying victims
Suspension (inverted)
Swapping
Swinging
Tape gags
Tattooing
Teasing
Tickling
Triple penetration
Uniforms
Verbal humiliation
Videoed scenes
Voyeurism
Whipping
Wrestling