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Rules and regs... hmmm.
Odd.. there are not many that were told to me, yet I live by dozens of them. I am not required to use "protocol" in speaking with my Master, yet it does come across in writing, I think.. and in my thoughts.
We have been out in public many times where the knowing eye would immediately pick up the signs of a D/s relationship.. at a party, His glass held out to me to refill, which was, of course, immmediately done. My double checking to make sure everything of His is taken when we leave a place, my sending Him flowers, holding open doors, things of that nature.
The sexual side of "Us" is obvious to even a blind man, though.. lol!.. many is the time we have been ribbed in public about the looks we give, the attention we pay to the other.
Because we both have responsibilities in our lives, a lot of time is spent catching moments together on line or by phone. I think that is where a lot of the self restraint comes in, on my part.. on line. I make sure that, although I chat, a certain distance is kept with other Masters; simply the way it has to be, but I am still able to pop in and visit friends without any problem.
The hardest rule to keep is another I've made for myself.. when missing Him, ( as I am, right this moment) ~ to find a productive way of showing it, instead of the dreaded whining, lol!
TO GIVE ALL..
BODY, SPIRIT, WILL AND MIND.
And, of course, my laughter and joy.. His requirement is that when I smile, I never turn my face from Him, for it is my gift to Him.
Quite easily done, that! *S*!
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