Things to do today
This is to help negotiate a specific scene, particularly a first scene,
as opposed to general interests. Check boxes for desired activities
or put numbers (1=highest priority).
[ ] collar (temporary)
[ ] leather (dog) [ ] chain/lock
[ ] Flogging
[ ] Butt [ ] Thighs [ ] Genitals [ ] Breasts [ ] Shoulders
[ ] Floggers (thud) [ ] Floggers (sting) [ ] Canes
[ ] Crop [ ] Paddle [ ] Hand [ ] Brushes [ ] belt
[ ] light [ ] moderate [ ] hard
[ ] Pain as pain: rapid buildup, more erratic timing
[ ] Pain as pleasure Gradual buildup, steady application
[ ] Tickling
[ ] Bondage
[ ] restrictive [ ] non-restrictive
[ ] escapable [ ] inescapable
[ ] Vertical [ ] Horizontal [ ] Bed [ ] Chair [ ] Exam table
[ ] Bent over [ ] Kneeling (padded)
[ ] rope dress
[ ] Mummification
[ ] Hot Wax
[ ] Ice
[ ] Hair pulling
[ ] light/symbolic [ ] medium [ ] hard
[ ] Knife play (no cutting)
[ ] Shaving
[ ] play piercing (temporary) Where: ____________________________
[ ] Light fireplay
[ ] Electrical play
[ ] Violet wand [ ] TENS Where: __________________________
[ ] Service (beverages, etc, presentation).
[ ] Medical exam
[ ] enema
[ ] Stand in corner [ ] Cage (not yet availible)
- clamps
Breasts: [ ] clothespins [ ] Nipple clamps
genitals: [ ] clothespins [ ] clips
elsewhere: [ ] clothespins
[ ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] ball (small) [ ] bit/bridle [ ] cloth (over mouth)
[ ] Tape [ ] cloth (in mouth)
[ ] oversize/mouth stuffing
[ ] loose enough to push out with tongue
[ ] Food play [ ] insertion [ ] external [ ] taste/eat
[ ] spoon feeding, etc. [ ] top serves bottom [ ] bottom serves top
[ ] meal
[ ] Sleep over (Set alarm for ______________)
[ ] Hot tub [ ] soak [ ] fool around [ ] sex
[ ] before [ ] during [ ] after
- Physical Intimacy/stimulation during Play
[ ] Kissing
[ ] Biting
[ ] licking (other than primary erogenous zones)
Breasts:
[ ] Carressing [ ] Licking/sucking [ ] Biting
[ ] pinching [ ] twisting [ ] bulling
Genitals
[ ] Manual stimulation of genitals
[ ] Manual penetration of genitals
[ ] flogging
[ ] dildo [ ] vibrator
[ ] penile penitration (condom)
[ ] cunnilingus (bottom receiving)
[ ] feather [ ] ice [ ] heat [ ] irritants
[ ] gentle [ ] rough
Ass Play
[ ] Manual stimulation
[ ] Dildo [ ] Vibrator [ ] Plug
[ ] Manual penetration
[ ] penile penetration (condom)
[ ] Analingus (bottom receiving)
[ ] Oral Service (giving)
[ ] unlubricated condom
[ ] ejaculation/swallowing
- orgasm control
[ ] denial
[ ] control
[ ] I will come if/when I damn well please
[ ] Silent alarm (bottom checks in with friend)
[ ] Specific times __________________ Interval: ________
- Crying
[ ] stop immediately [ ] check in [ ] normal part of mindset
- Safewords/signals
[ ] Plain communication (I mean what I say)
[X] "Safeword"
[ ] Red (stop NOW, option to resume) Yellow (slow down) Green (More!!!)
[ ] Top's name
[ ] Bottom's name
[ ] "Aardvark"
[ ] "Time out" (take everything seriously till "time in")
[ ] "Simon Sez" (next statement taken seriously)
[ ] Checkin: [ ] two hand squeezes, two hand squeezes back if ok
[ ] SOS (grunt, etc).
[ ] The sound of one hand clapping
[ ] Dropping object held for this purpose
- Elements
[ ] Domination/submission
[ ] Bondage
[ ] Discipline [ ] Punishment [ ] Training
[ ] Smart ass massochist
[ ] Sadism/masochism
[ ] Consentual Non-consensual elements
[ ] minor [ ] durress/peer pressure [ ] mild force [ ] strong force
[ ] Blackmail [ ] Authority figure
[ ] verbal resistance [ ] physical resistance
- Sex
[ ] Masturbation
[ ] do ourselves [ ] do each other [ ] top only [ ] bottom only
[ ] Oral
[ ] Top serving bottom [ ] Bottom serving top [ ] 69
[ ] Vaginal
[ ] penile [ ] manual [ ] Dildo [ ] vibrator
[ ] Anal
[ ] penile [ ] manual [ ] Dildo [ ] vibrator
- Bottom is
[ ] passive [ ] active
[ ] Name Calling (sample words)
[ ] naughty [ ] nasty [ ] slut [ ] bitch [ ] whore
[ ] tramp [ ] harlot [ ] cunt [ ] cheap [ ] expensive :-)
Other words you particularly like: _______________________
Other words you particularly dislike: _____________________
[ ] Protection (top may increase)
[ ] Condoms (vaginal/anal penetration)
[ ] oral (on male)
[ ] unlubricated condom [ ] no condom
[ ] Cum in mouth ok [ ] swallowing
[ ] Gloves
[ ] Dental Dams or equivalent for cunnilingus
[ ] Dental Dams or equivalent for anallingus
[ ] Cum inside [ ] Cum outside (on body)
- STD's
- Do you currently have any known STDs or reason to suspect
that you may? _________________________________________
- When was the last time you were tested for STDs? ___________
- Birth control
- Are you currently using some form of birth control? ___________
[ ] Role play
[ ] Interegation [ ] Intruder [ ] Abducter
[ ] Deflowering [ ] relative [ ] initiation/hazing
[ ] boss/secretary: [ ] harrassment [ ] negotiating raise
[ ] Teen [ ] slut [ ] prostitute [ ] stripper [ ] model
[ ] model [ ] porn acctress [ ] vanilla actress
[ ] Therapist [ ] Doctor [ ] Teacher [ ] Principal
[ ] relative [ ] mad scientist (top) [ ] spouse [ ] date
[ ] Animal [ ] Pony [ ] Dog [ ] cat [ ] other: _________
[ ] Other specify: ___________________________________________
Details: _____________________________________________________
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- Alchohol consumption
top may not be [ ] under influence [ ] seriously impaired
bottom may not be [ ] under influence [ ] seriously impared
[ ] consume as part of scene [ ] top [ ] bottom
[ ] other (specify): _________________________________________
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