In my continued efforts to build a wondrous community where we can all learn, share and have fun: I'd like to have you join in on the activities! Below are a few of the current or upcoming chats, discussion board topics and events of our Lair. I'd like to add many more in the future, including theme chats/Vampiress, Dessert slaves, sissy maids serve and such for fun and thought provoking topics where we can exchange knowledge. I'd like to lead up to including a schedule of Munch gatherings where we can meet. If there is a topic that you would like to host, please let me know.

If you are the first in the chat, wait a bit. You may also want to send a message to some of the others members on-line to join in. I will peek in when I can. Dommes may add me to their pager list at any time. I will only consider adding a submissive that has completed the "slave 7" including making a satisfactory intro/greeting post in both clubs. When in the Yahoo! Chat at our club it helps to post a message stating that you are opening the chat room. This works for me.

The Excite Club Discussion area is easier to use for ongoing topics. The responses appear directly under the original topic. This way we can add to the discussion and readily see others replys to our comments. Also, there you can comment directly under photos, upload files and such.

So jump in gang, and hey, be careful out there! *wink*

Lair Chats

1. Lair Garden Chat: social gathering in the well manicured garden on a fabulous estate where BBW Dommes RULE and are served and amused by interesting, respectful submissives.
   Nightly 10:00-11:30 p.m. EST - Yahoo! Club

2. Novice Questions: relaxed Q&A with those new to D/s and those with a bit more knowledge to share.
   Weekly/Mondays 8:00-9:30 p.m. EST - Yahoo! Club

3. sissy Chat: social gathering.
   AOL Member Chat: sissysubs4BBWDommes - My sissy and I will try to be there often, feel free to open this room anytime, I will peek in when I can.
   Weekly/Wednesday & Friday 5:00 -6:30 p.m. EST- AOL Member Chat/Special Interests Room. *You must have AOL*

4. Queen Zar's BBW Dommes and sub males: social gathering via the chat room at the Lair website. It is a java chat room on Bondage.Com so there are over 100 other BDSM rooms you can roam through.
   Open all the time, just pop in and get it started - Queen Zar's Chat

Lair Boards

1. sissies for BBW Dommes - a little pink room for members to exchange thoughts, info and network with others. All sissy members should drop in to respond to my "When did you first "dress" post and the "Why BBW?" post by sissy betsyann.

2. Toys for less - here we can share info on where to find inexpensive "toys" or fashion some tried and true ones from things found around the house. In the Excite Club/Discussions. There are other topics there that you may want to comment on.

Play with each other?

• I must confess, I enjoy playing some of the games in Yahoo! to relax a bit. My current fav' is the Spades Card Game. It would be a kick to share a private table with Dommes and subs from our clubs. You may chat while playing. The handle I use is zarsquest. I only use this handle for the games and will not hold lengthy exchanges with submissives about our lifestyle when private messaged. Lair Dommes and subs may add this handle to your pager to message me to arrange a game. They are java based games/no downloads. 4 can play at a table and others can come in to just watch and chat. I may also be convinced to play a bit of Gin, Chess or Backgammon. The goal would be to get a nice listing of members to play and maybe do some tournaments in the future. I usually play late at night (EST) so check for me then. I would like to start a listing of handles of members that would like to join in. That way we can quickly arrange a game.

Lair sissy Pin-ups!

• I will be choosing a lucky sissy to adorn my sissy pin-up pages. you need to be an active member in the Lair. Visit the info page for all you'll need to know! Check out the latest sissy pin-up!

MISC.

• Two great mail lists you may enjoy are sissy Domination and BBW Dommes just join ONELIST and join both lists. I'd suggest that you sign on for the digest version, that way you get one mail filled with the posts of each day. You can meet some nice, serious folks and gain a bit of knowledge too.

• To be added to the Domme Registry just send your profile with or without a photo to me. Take a peek at the Registry to see what you may want to include. To be added to the slave trade listing, you must be active in the club and have completed the "slave 7".

• Be sure to read the D/s Stories that feature large, powerful FemDoms and their submissives.

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