 Ms Christina |
Ms Christina |
One of the most important facets a sissy must learn is obedience to the Domina. In their special relationship, she is the highest authority and the submissive must always defer to her wishes. Her commands, desires, wishes and instructions are to be carried out to the best of the sissy's ability at all times.
To do less would be to deny her authority. The goal of obedience is greater submission, not what the submissive may gain by doing so. Her motives, reasoning and rationale are not to be questioned. If the Domina chooses to explain her demands to the submissive that is her wish, but she is not obligated to do so. It is not for the submissive to question her, opinions are not needed, but simply to obey.Obedience is not easy, but then actual submissive surrender to the will of the Domina never is. Obedience must be examined and refined on a regular basis. Obedience includes not only the physical carrying out of the Domina's wishes; but also correct thoughts, attitude and demeanor. The sulky submissive is being disobedient. The hesitant submissive is being disobedient.
Rules are formulated to give the submissive goals to work toward in refining obedience. Tests and ordeals are given to measure the sissy's level of obedience. Discipline, correction and punishment are given, both mentally and physically, when called for to remind the submissive of their objective, to obey the Domina.
Obedience is most pure and most valuable when it is offered against what the submissive would rather do. It is not submission to submit only to what one enjoys, and not obedience to obey only what is comfortable to obey. The greatest measure of obedience is in circumstances the submissive finds less than desirable.
In this way, the needs of the DOMINA can be given first
priority and the act of submission given it's greatest value. It is through obedience to her wishes that the submissive best illustrates respect for the Domina.At times the submissive may be called upon to demonstrate obedience in front of, or toward another DOMINA. Through respect to the DOMINA, the submissive obeys. Respect is meaningless without obedience.
There are times the DOMINA may require the submissive to complete tasks that are distasteful. The choice is hers to make, the submissive that chooses to serve me and so will obey.The submissive will not choose which commands, desires, wishes of the DOMINA are to be carried out and which are to be ignored. Obedience is a totality, not a game of pick and choose.
Can you serve me this way?
I am a lifestyle Domme who desires to own a sissy. I seek a relationship where we are friends, lovers, soulmates, and a D/s lifestyle where it is understood I am the Dominate one, and he my pet, slave, the submissive one.
You must have a strong desire to serve, and obey , please me and devote your life to me your Queen. you can be my man, sissy, friend, confidant, maid, sub, and above all else my property slave!!
Know your proper place, be strong and independent at work, but need a Mistress to serve and to obey. your life is incomplete without the D in the s and you must desire both. you are only fulfilled when under my firm control.
Find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to me in a loving relationship. I am not weak, or stupid. be a strong man, with firm views and a clear concept of what you want out of life. Do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength. have the most to give, give of yourself, profess Loyalty, Obedience, Servitude, and a Unconditional Love for me your Mistress that money can-not buy. Look to your loving Mistress for guidance and protection, for never are you more complete than when I am with you. Know that I will protect your body, mind, and soul with my strength and wisdom. I am everything to you, as you are everything to me. my touch awakens you and my thoughts free you. Only in serving me do you find complete freedom and joy.My punishments are harsh but accept them thankfully, knowing that I have your best interests always foremost in mind. If I desire your body for pleasure, you shall joyfully give it , and take pleasure from knowing that you have brought me happiness. However, my pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of any relationship. my love, trust and sharing, my words spoken and felt, those are all part of our relationship.
Your body is mine, and if I say you are beautiful, then you are,no matter what you look like to others, you are beautiful in my eyes, and because of that you may hold your head high...for who can tell you that your Mistress is wrong in seeing her beauty in you? If I say you are my prince, then you are that...masculine and graceful, and if I see laughter at you in the eyes of others, do not recognize it, for who are they to call your Mistress wrong? If I says you are my toy, tramp, maid, boy,then you are that...as wanton and slutty as I want you to be, and if others do not see that, then it is they who are blind, not your Mistress.
Your mind is mine, to expand, to explore, to know as only I can. you have no secrets from me...for secrets are a thing that would keep you from being more perfectly mine. Secrets would put a wall up between you and I...and I do not want walls. My lessons are not always ones you would seek on your own, but they are lessons I has decided you need, and so you learn from me.
Your soul is mine, as bare to my touch as ever your skin could be when you kneel naked at my feet. Never a moment goes by when you do not feel my presence, be I miles away or standing over you. If you were to ever displease me, my displeasure would be a blow to your soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be. The anguish your souls feels when you disappoint me is harder to bear than the physical anguish you feel when my belt caresses you with fire.
Spend your days knowing that my energy and thoughts are put into our relationship is as much for your benefit as for mine, and look forward to each lovingly crafted scene that we do together. My part is much harder than yours, know that I care enough about you to spend my time and energy so freely on you. You have the easier job: to feel, to experience, to let yourself go and abandon everything to me . You are my pleasure and my responsibility, and I take both seriously.
Are you a submissive man. Be proud to call yourself that. Your submission is a gift that should not be given lightly, and can only be given to one who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold. Only to She who has that strength will you give yourself fully, because - you are a submissive man, a sissy slave to your Mistress!
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