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The Internet is full of web sites with copious links to every topic imaginable, and as many links as one could ever wish for. It is not the intention here to attempt to duplicate the efforts of these sites, but rather to offer a small selection of useful links to assist in the education of the viewer of this page. If anyone, after having viewed these links, feels that there is an excellent site which belongs here, feel free to contact us at SPANKinNC@aol.com.

Actually, the above title is not quite accurate. The following links are useful for all, but have been selected with the beginner in mind.

The Deviant's Dictionary: This site is a very important one for a number of reasons; especially because it offers definitions of many common terms utilized in the D/s and bdsm subculture. In addition to these definitions, TDD includes a huge number of sourcesheets on many of the defined topics. It is a magnificent resource. http://www.queernet.org/deviant/

Frite's ASB/SSB Acronyms Page: This page is part of the Usenet newsgroup soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm's web site. It defines many of the more common acronyms common to D/s and bdsm, and also to Usenet. http://www.mindspring.com/~frites/abbr.txt

The soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm FAQ List: This FAQ is an excellent primer for the complete newbie to wiitwd (what it is that we do). One of the better starting points one can have. It is not a huge lump of text, but a series of questions on D/s and bdsm formatted as hyperlinks, allowing one to jump from one question to another. . http://www.unrealities.com/adult/ssbb/faq.htm

Society for Human Sexuality: The Society for Human Sexuality is an all-volunteer social and educational organization devoted to the appreciation of the myriad consensual forms of human relationships and sexual expression. Participation is open to anyone over the age of 18, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. While not a D/s and bdsm-specific site, it includes a huge amount of information on such topics of interest, in addition to information on more conventional forms of sexual expression. http://www.sexuality.org

Loving D/s: Loving D/s is a web site devoted to couples who have made a lifetime commitment to one another and are exploring some form of D/s, regardless of sexual orientation. A mailing list is offered, and the site itself contains much helpful information. http://www.lovingds.org/

AltSex: A web site devoted to alternative human sexuality. http://www.altsex.org/

Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List: This check list was composed by Tammad Rimilia and is public domain. http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/sub-checklist.html

Kink Awareness Professionals: This is a resource for people who are seeking psychotherapeutic, medical, dental, complementary healing, legal, and financial professionals who are informed about the diversity of consensual, adult sexuality. http://www.bannon.com/kap/

 SaferSex Org; an online journal of safe sexuality: http://www.safersex.org/

North Carolina Sex Offender & Public Protection Registry: http://sbi.jus.state.nc.us/sor/

Dominants in Controlled Kink: http://members.aol.com/MasterNik/Homepage.html

Enjoying Dominance: (A site for Dommes) http://www.akashaweb.com/forwomen.html

~LATCHES~: A non-profit support and discussion group for submissive women who have had some real-time, physical experience with D/s. http://latches.beautyscastle.com/latches.htm

submissives United for Consensual Kink: http://members.aol.com/SafeSane/index.html

subNATION: http://www.mouse-works.com/subnation/index.html

BDSM - A POWERotics Production: (deals with Male Domination and female submission) http://www.bdsm.com/powerotics/home.htm

D/s Discussion…and more!: http://www.cyberzaar.com/dscuss/main.html

LeatherWeb Homepage: (emphasis on gay/bi, lesbian/bi and hetero/bi relationships) http://www.leatherweb.com/

National Leather Association International: (pansexual organization) http://www.nla-i.com/

The D/s Kiosk: http://www.cuffs.com/

The Online Companion to Different Loving (a major reference work on D/s and bdsm): http://gloria-brame.com/diflove.htm

Thro's D/s Resources: http://members.tripod.com/~ThroTchr/index.html

Christian-BDSM: http://www.Christian-BDSM.org

Rubber Fetish: http://www.rubberfetish.com

Uncle Abdul's Electrical Play Web Page:  http://www.bigrock.com/~uncleabdul/

Wax Play: http://links.magenta.com/lmnop/users/spectrum/wax.htm

The Stockroom: http://www.stockroom.com

This section lists various FAQs. Most are used for various Usenet newsgroups, so that the most common questions can be answered without taking up newsgroup bandwidth. They also serve as excellent sources of information on the newsgroup's major topic

The alt.sex FAQ: http://www.halcyon.com/elf/altsex/shortdex.html

The alt.sex.fetish.fashion FAQ: http://login.dknet.dk/~pg/fetish/FAQ/index.html

The alt.polyamory FAQ: ftp://rtfm.mit.edu/pub/usenet-by-group/alt.polyamory

The rec.arts.bodyart FAQ: http://www.cs.ruu.nl/wais/html/na-dir/bodyart/.html

Body Modification Ezine: http://www.BME.FreeQ.com/

The alt.torture FAQ: http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/1434/index.html

Pony Play FAQ: http://www.tdl.com/~thawley/ponyfaq.htm

The soc.sexuality.spanking FAQ: http://www.amythest.com/sss/