Playlist
This is a play list you can print off and complete. Answer the best you can and as honestly as you can.
I. TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF:
A. BDSM Scene Experience:
____novice ___ experienced ___ advanced
B. Sexual and Gender Orientation:
___male ___female___crossdresser
___transexual ___heterosexual ___bicurious ___bisexual ___gay ___transgendered
C. Dominant:
___always ___often ___rarely ___never ___might try if you wanted it
D. Submissive:
___always ___often ___rarely ___never ___might try if you wanted it
E. Masochistic:
___very ___somewhat ___hardly ___no way
F. Sadistic:
___very ___somewhat ___hardly ___no way
G. My Main Interests Are:
___psychosexual/mental (dom/sub/role play)
___sensual/physical (bottom/top)
___visual/aural (I like to watch/listen)
H. I Am Willing To Play At:
___anywhere at all
___at SM clubs
___at SM play parties
___in public far from my home
___in public near my home
___in my home
___outdoors
___other: ___________________
I. On Information About Your Activities:
___I am extremely discreet, keep it between us.
___A few of my very trusted friends know.
___Other scene people know what I am doing.
___My kinky side is obvious to the world, and don't care who knows.
J. About Playing With Others:
___I prefer to play only with my partner(s).
___Threesomes are okay.
___Small groups are okay.
___I play with pre-approved people only.
___If I lose count, oh well!
K. About Punishment:
___It is the right of the Dominant.
___It enhances the fantasy.
___It is a good excuse to have fun.
___I don't play those games, I do what I do because my partner nd I like it.
L. About Body Bruises and Markings
___My body should remain as is.
___A little redness is okay.
___Accidental bruises are acceptable.
___I wear marks as my badge of honor.
___My body can look like a road map.
M. List any medical conditions or injuries your partner(s) should know about:
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
WORDS WE USE:
A. These words or actions hurt my feelings, turn me off, or make me angry:
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
B. These words or actions make me feel excited, subby, loved and adored:
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
II. BODY POSITIONS FOR PLAY:
What positions have the highest erotic value for you?
Unless specified, positions are not bound(rate as many as you like) 1 = highest rate
_____standing bondage
_____Lying on back
_____Lying face down
_____Kneeling
_____Hands & Knees
_____[other]
III. ROLE PLAYING
Done it \How I feel about it
Y/N [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Amazon / Barbarian
____ ____ Baby / Caretaker
____ ____ Bitch-Goddess
____ ____ Boss / Employee
____ ____ Burglar / Victim
____ ____ Child / Caretaker
____ ____ Clergy / Nun
____ ____ Cowboy/girl / Indian
____ ____ Daddy / Mommy
____ ____ Doctor / Nurse / Patient
____ ____ Evil Prest(ess) / Victim
____ ____ Fantasy Rape
____ ____ French Maid
____ ____ God(ess)
____ ____ Hero / Femme Fatale
____ ____ Ingenue
____ ____ Interrogator / Prisoner
____ ____ Kidnapper / Victim
____ ____ Knight / Princess
____ ____ Master / Pet
____ ____ Pimp / Hooker
____ ____ Pirate
____ ____ Policeman / Fireman / Suspect
____ ____ Ponygirl(boy)
____ ____ Principal / Teacher / Student
____ ____ Wild Animals talking / Mating
IV. SEX, SEX, SEX
Done it\ How I feel
Y/N\ [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Anal Fisting
____ ____ Anal penetration
____ ____ Anal penetration (doing)
____ ____ Analingus
____ ____ Cock worship (doing)
____ ____ Cunnilingus (getting)
____ ____ Cunnilingus (giving)
____ ____ Digital Penetration
____ ____ Directed Masturbation
____ ____ 2X Penetration (oral/vaginal)
____ ____ 2X Penetration (vaginal/anal)
____ ____ Double Penetration (oral/anal)
____ ____ Multiple Penetration
____ ____ Eating / drinking cum (others')
____ ____ Eating / drinking cum (own)
____ ____ Fellatio (giving)
____ ____ Fellatio (receiving)
____ ____ Strap-ons (giving)
____ ____ Strap-ons (receiving)
____ ____ Vaginal Fisting
____ ____ Vaginal Penetration
V. BONDAGE
A. What is the degree of immobility or helplessness you most enjoy?
___ SLIGHT ___ MODERATE ___ EXTREME
B. Done it \How I feel
Y/N [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Body Bag
____ ____ Breast Bondage
____ ____ Chains
____ ____ Collars (leather)
____ ____ Collars (other)
____ ____ Cotton Rope
____ ____ Crosses
____ ____ Cuffs (leather)
____ ____ Cuffs (other)
____ ____ Gags (ball)
____ ____ Gags (funnel)
____ ____ Gags (other)
____ ____ Gags (panties)
____ ____ Genital Bondage
____ ____ Harnessing (suspended)
____ ____ Holding Position
____ ____ Hoods (leather)
____ ____ Hoods (metal)
____ ____ Hoods (other)
____ ____ Intricate Rope Bondage
____ ____ Leather Restraints
____ ____ Mouthbits
____ ____ Mummification
____ ____ Nylon Rope
____ ____ Put in a Cage
____ ____ Saran Wrapping
____ ____ Shackles
____ ____ Silk Scarves
____ ____ Slings / Swings
____ ____ Spreader-bars
____ ____ Stocks / Pillory
____ ____ Straight-jackets
____ ____ Strapping - full body
____ ____ Suspension
____ ____ Suspension (inverted)
VI. PLACE AND TYPE OF BONDAGE EXPERIENCE:
Done it \How I feel
Y/N [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ indoor
____ ____ outdoor
____ ____ private
____ ____ public
____ ____ semi-public
____ ____ 1-3 hour duration
____ ____ 3-6 hour duration
____ ____ overnight duration
VII. FETISH ITEMS
Done it \How I feel
Y/N [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Boot worship (as sexual turn-on)
____ ____ Corsets (wearing)
____ ____ Corsets (on others)
____ ____ Foot Worship
____ ____ Forced x dressing
____ ____ High heel wearing
____ ____ High heel worship
____ ____ Uniforms
____ ____ Latex wearing
____ ____ Latex, on others
____ ____ Rubber wearing
____ ____ Rubber on others
____ ____ Leather wearing
____ ____ Leather on others
VIII. BODILY FUNCTIONS
Done it \How I feel
Y/N [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Breath Control
____ ____ Brown showers
____ ____ Catheterization
____ ____ Eating/drinking own waste
____ ____ Enemas
____ ____ Physical Examinations
____ ____ Golden showers
____ ____ Medical scenes
____ ____ Menstrual service
____ ____ Other Water Sports
IX. INTENSE SENSATION (SM / PAIN PLAY)
Some of these items are listed elsewhere when done for effect, and not intense sensation
Done it \How I feel
Y/N [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Abrasion
____ ____ Ball Stretchers
____ ____ Bamboo Skewers
____ ____ Belt / Strap
____ ____ Biting
____ ____ Braided Cat
____ ____ Branding
____ ____ Cane (rattan)
____ ____ Clips and Clamps
____ ____ Cock & Ball torture
____ ____ Cutting
____ ____ Deerskin Cat
____ ____ Dipiliatory Wax
____ ____ Electrical play
____ ____ Face Slapping (for physical sensation / intensity)
____ ____ Fiberglass / Plastic Rod
____ ____ Genital Torture
____ ____ Heat
____ ____ Hot Wax
____ ____ Knifeplay (w/o cutting)
____ ____ Knotted Whip
____ ____ Leather Cat
____ ____ Leather Paddle
____ ____ Needles (Play piercing)
____ ____ Pinching
____ ____ Riding Crop
____ ____ Rubber Whip
____ ____ Scratching (giving)
____ ____ Scratching (receiving)
____ ____ Single Tail Whip
____ ____ Spanking (other)
____ ____ Spanking (over knee)
____ ____ Switch
____ ____ Taws
____ ____ Water Torture
____ ____ Wooden Paddle
X. HUMILIATION / EXHIBITION / SERVICE
Done it\ How I feel
Y/N [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Being Given away
____ ____ Being Lead on a Leash
____ ____ Being Lectured
____ ____ Boot Worship (to show gratitude)
____ ____ Branding (for marking, not pain)
____ ____ Clothing Chosen for You
____ ____ Crawling
____ ____ Diapering
____ ____ Face Slapping (for humiliation)
____ ____ Following orders
____ ____ Food Chosen for You
____ ____ Foot Kissing
____ ____ Forced Exhibitionism
____ ____ Forced nudity
____ ____ Forced servitude
____ ____ Forced Use of Dirty Words
____ ____ Forced Voyeurism
____ ____ Hair pulling
____ ____ Housework
____ ____ Housework (nude,collared)
____ ____ Humiliation in private
____ ____ Humiliation in public
____ ____ Infantilism
____ ____ Kneeling
____ ____ Licking (doing)
____ ____ Licking (receiving)
____ ____ Massage - getting
____ ____ Massage - giving
____ ____ Phone sex
____ ____ Photographs
____ ____ Piercing (permanent)
____ ____ Plaster Casting Genitals
____ ____ Public Display
____ ____ Public Sex
____ ____ Public Whipping
____ ____ Recruiting Victims
____ ____ Secret Sex in Public
____ ____ Serving
____ ____ Serving as Ashtray
____ ____ Serving as Furniture
____ ____ Shaving <genitals>
____ ____ Shaving <whole body>
____ ____ Soap in Mouth
____ ____ Swapping
____ ____ Tattoos
____ ____ Toys Chosen for You
____ ____ Tearing off Clothing
____ ____ Verbal Humiliation
____ ____ Videotaped Scenes
XI. TOYS AND THEIR EROTIC VALUE:
[0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ Belts
____ Blindfolds
____ Boots/shoes
____ Butt plugs
____ Canes
____ Chains
____ Chastity Belt
____ Clothespins
____ Clothing
____ Cock Rings
____ Collars
____ Dildoes
____ Dipiliatory Wax
____ Electrical toys
____ Feathers / Fur
____ Floggers
____ Gags
____ Handcuffs
____ Harnesses & Slings
____ Headphone / Ear plugs
____ Hot Wax
____ Ice / Fire & Ice
____ Knives
____ Leather Restraints
____ Needles
____ Nipple clamps
____ Oils / Lotions / Spices
____ Paddles
____ Plastic Wrap
____ Ropes
____ Tape
____ Uniforms
____ Vibrators
____ Weights
____ Whips
XII. OTHER WAYS TO PLAY:
Done it\ How I feel
Y/N\ [0=Please, don't come near me with that, 1=not a turn on; 2=somewhat exciting; 3=can take it or leave it, will do it for my partner, 4=exciting, 5-very exciting !!=I'm terrified, but make me do it.]
____ ____ Abjectification-(abjection- downcast state; the act of making humbling, Rejection.)
____ ____ Bloodsport
____ ____ Fear Play
____ ____ Romantic Play
____ ____ Sensory Deprivation
____ ____ Sexual Denial
____ ____ Sexual Teasing
____ ____ Tickling
____ ____ Wrestling