Toy buying is exciting! Of course I am speaking from a girl's perspective where any kind of shopping is fun! It can be daunting also. A lot of retailers want to charge you insane amounts of money for goods you can make at home (see

couples into bondage

- 50 feet of solid braided nylon rope (home depot will cut it into 10 ft pieces and you can ask them to burn the ends for you)
- wrist and ankle restraints (handcuffs can become painful, if you must buy them stay away from the ones with a clover-leafed key, they are cheaply made)
- blindfold (to make a great one see fur blindfold how-to)
other cheap and great accessories:
- a pillow case for a full hood blindfold
- silk scarves
- ties
- screw hooks for door frames (make sure they hold weight and then suspend their arms)


couples into spanking

- paddle (some great ones have fur on one side and leather on the other, great for the beginner)
- belt (no need to buy one, but do be safe, the can really STING!)
- stool (cheap unfinished ones can be found for $7.00)
-fur mitt (see my do it yourself)
- lotion (soothes the reddest bottom)
other cheap and great accessories:
- wooden spoon (great household tool!)
- hairbrush (buy a large, flat one and only use the unbristled side :))


couples into discipline

- riding crop (the definitive discipline tool, short whaps and what a sting if used correctly)
- clamps (men and women's clamps are very different be sure! and get adjustable)
- paraffin emergency candles (for fire and ice torture)
other cheap and great accessories:
- sharpie (unwashable markers work great when you want someone to remember their bad deeds)
- feathers (tell them not to laugh and tickle their most private parts ;))


couples into humiliation

- pet leash (make sure this fits with your submissive's build and tastes)
- dog collar/cat collar (same as above)
- clothes that expose body parts (pajamas with open drawers, dress with sheep breast area)
- pet dishes
other cheap and great accessories:
- bows for boys and lil' girls (scening, large pink bows work well)
- cat ears (great to look for during Halloween)
- frilly girl panties (old women's panties that have ruffles can fit a lot of male and femsubs)