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Just making its debut and soon to become a large section. Lots of information of training a slave. Including historical and other sources.
We have finally done it! The 6 Lesson Newbie Guide for all of those new to bdsm. If you are new to bdsm this is a must read!
Examples, tips and help for the beginner and for the advanced couple. We've compiled a simple resource on setting a scene and much more!
lily speaks out on the delicate issue of perfect the art of silence in a D/s relationship. Excersizes included.
Managing a D/s Household can be a chore, here are two simple articles on setting up Rules and Task lists to make the house work easily.
Ms. lily may not be Emily Post, but she writes a good lesson in what to expect from the big broad world of BDSM cyberspace. ICQ, IRC, Mailing lists and newsgroups are all discussed.
Flying the skies might not be so friendly when packing some BDSM items. Here are some tips to turn a hotel into a dungeon and your trip into a kinky one.
We write a lot of articles about after you meet the perfect partner. Ms. lily sketches out some good traits for a sub to look for in searching for their perfect Dom.
Don't just sit there waiting for TheOne to drop out of the sky and mold you like clay. Some ways submissives on their own can do some self teaching into the finer arts and beauty of submission.
With the spirit of Valentines Day haunting Ms. lily rubs elbows with subs and mentions ways to make your Dom feel more special. Little things you can do in everyday life for your Master.
Tackling another controversial one. What have I gotten myself into? A worthy debate on punishment for Masters.
A simple article on a largely debated topic. Views from various couples involved in the TPE plus our own journey down the road.
Oh my god not another webpage with Partner Checklists! We've revised, beautified and buffed the old Partner Checklist to make it easy to use and print out. There are two options also. Acts are placed alphabetically.
Anal Training is a subject talked about, but when I went searching there were little to no webpages about it. This section will act as a teaching aid for those wanting to use Anal Training and a diary of lily's experiences through Anal Training.
lily offers a frank discussion of the best lubricants out there for all types of bdsm sexual play. We also road test some of the most popular lubes and tell you what we liked. Also tips on spicy lubes.
Lost in the sea of terrible porn and not finding one good bondage video? Here are some tips and help for the novice to the experienced video shopper!
Shaving can be a scary and daunting task for a submissive. Here are some great tips, how-tos, background info and much more on the task. Make shaving a very sensual and enjoyable ritual for both Dom and sub.
Scouring the internet like a junkie. Along with the help of fellow Dommes and subs I've compiled the best places to specific toys. Such as quirts, floggers, paddles, custom furniture, pony gear etc...
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The Garden of Lord Koi and lily
KoiLily Designs and it's references (1999).